wow, it seems that the year is ending already and i sooo wanna do some spring/new yr's/year end cleaning. a sort of a catharsis and exorcism of what had happened this year and years passed.
as some of you know i follow at least three fandoms, there's the scifi fandom
there's my kpop fandom and my makeup hobby
these hobbies and fandoms are what i maintain and with these fandoms i have gained so many new friends. friends that i would like to keep and see for a very long time to come.
i think friends you gain from fandom are less judgemental.
less likely to call you DIE HARD.
will hardly call you jologs. and would merely respect you for the things you are liking at the moment.
of course everyone is different, some fandoms dislike each other just because it seems disliking and judging is easier to do than trying to relate, trying to see what your friend is in to, and most of all disliking and judging is way easier than expanding a mind.
there are so many fandoms out there, even rachel ray has fans and that really loud dude from abc's extreme make over home edition. all i can say is, don't dismiss a person for his or her fandom. we will respect other people's thoughts and opinions if only those opinions do not look down on us or make it seem that the person judging is better than every body.
this year i've regained a new outlook on people who've i've met along the way from both my fandoms and my very distant past. through facebook, i was reminded of what need to remember and what i need to hold dear.
i know my note is very jumbled up and makes no sense.
i just want to put it out there that if i don't judge a person for having x number of kids, or if i don't judge a person for whining that he/she is super toxic with life and can't pursue a certain course. then allow me the same courtesy. kung ayaw mo mag make up eh di wag, wag ka na lang magcomment because people who do wear make up [like me and my ghels] we just love our winged liner as we are asian pop fans bwahahaha and that is our preference.
hindi jologs ang nakaka donate ng 500k sa gawad kalinga at nakaka bili ng original dvd at cd. lalong hindi jologs ang nakaka ibang bansa just to watch a concert or a fan meet.
thank you tsph and thank you nwa/via-astris. live long and prosper.